I’ve heard that shopping for wedding dresses can be one of the most stressful, tiresome, heart breaking and expensive times of your life. So today when I went on my first day of ‘real’ wedding dress shopping and managed to fall in love with the perfect dress, I was a little surprised.
A few weeks prior my friend had bought a wedding dress, off the rack, only a week or so after she got engaged. When I had heard this I was surprised. “How could you find a dress that you liked, just off the rack!?” I thought.
Obviously my expectations for the trip weren’t that I would find a dress, or even that I would put on a dress that day that I liked, I was merely there to get designs and ideas so that Mum and I could create our own, or, I could speak to someone about getting one ‘made to order’.
So when we walked into Elizabeth de Varga, a designer store, and saw a whole range of beautiful dresses, and loved one in particular, I was surprised at myself. My mother on the other hand was more surprised at the $3080 price tag, and that’s not including the extra sleeve bits that I wanted. ‘Rosemary’ was it’s name, and it was simply stunning. I might scan a picture of the sketch for you to see…
The next three hours were spent looking through bridal shops and dress shops finding nothing that compared to the one that I wanted. I scared my fiancé by telling him how much the one that I LOVED was, and my mother gave me unsure, telling looks that I might have to raise some of the dosh myself. A little hard with no job. :-(
After meeting my fiancé for lunch, and returning to a store that we hadn’t finished in yet, my mother showed me a dress, that I had previously dismissed, again. I tried it on, and viola, I was in love. I wore the dress for the rest of the afternoon, prancing around in it, holding different bouquets, different veils, etc. I’ve got it all worked out now, and this baby was only $1500, excluding the veil, and obviously bouquet.
So was the experience traumatic? No. Was the experience expensive? Not for me… Was the experience tiresome? I was tired by the end of it. Mostly, was the experience worth it? Absolutely! I found my perfect dress.
It will be need to be taken up and the bodice altered slightly to create a ’sweetheart’ neckline, as opposed to straight, but it is perfect and fitted and slim and lace and pretty and not white and just… perfect! I can’t wait to get married now! Woo hoo!